Monday, February 22, 2010

Two women, two dreams, one night

Saturday morning, I got a text from my friend wanting to know if I had fun the night before at bunco with the Meetup group. I replied that I did. She texted back that she'd had a dream she wanted to tell me about. I replied I had had a dream with her in it and it was weird by how lifelike it seemed. It was one of those that didn't feel like a dream.

We have been playing phone tag and our schedules were out of sync this weekend so I didn't get a chance to talk to her until today. I hadn't really thought anything of it-we have and share weird dreams all the time. But they usually aren't on the same night and about the same thing.

She started by telling me that before her best friend C met her husband M, my friend had a dream in which M appeared. Neither of them had met M, but my friend just knew that is who C was supposed to be with. She described him to C, and when C and M met, he was exactly like my friend had pictured him in her dream, right down to the clothes he was wearing.

She told me that in the dream she had between Friday night and Saturday morning, she was standing outside her house to see me off because I was leaving. I had to get somewhere and was in a hurry and was focusing on that. It wasn't somewhere bad-I just needed to be somewhere. She said I started to leave and a guy was standing by my car on the driver side near the back of my car but I was so focused I didn't see him (it's sad I am so unobservant that it manifests itself in other people's dreams). But she saw him and knew that was who I was supposed to be with. Saturday morning, she remembered in clear detail; but now she doesn't, other than he had wavy brown hair, was pale and had "weird" shaped eyes. (And no, it wasn't Edward Cullen. I asked).

Meanwhile, on the same night, I had a dream that I was at a Meetup event and was getting ready to leave because I had another event to get to and if I waited any longer to leave, I was going to be late for it. My friend came up and told me not to leave. I told her I had to-I had another event to get to. She isn't in the group so I didn't even know she was there, and was mildly confused as to why she was even there. She said she thought I should stay. I told her I had somewhere else I needed to be. She said that she had talked to Meetup Guy and he liked me. I told her he was interested in someone else-I heard him say he was. She said he told her he only said that because he was caught off-guard by the person asking if he liked the other girl and said he was because he knew the person asking was friends with the other girl. My friend told me he was really interested in me and I shouldn't leave because he was trying to figure out how to ask me out.

And then I woke up. As I said my friend and I have weird dreams all the time-these were normal dreams; the weirdness is in her and I dreaming basically the same thing on the same night.

I am so tempted to have her look at the profiles for all the guys in my Meetup groups to see if she recognizes anyone. But I won't. I will let time tell if there is something to this or if it was just a coincidence.

1 comment:

Selina said...

Very interesting. :) Love you!!!